Signals That Your Child May Be Using Drugs
Repeated, unexplained depression and lethargy or euphoria and hyperactivity. Other signs include:
If you suspect that your child is using drugs, it is important to acknowledge the problem, try to find out which drug(s) your child is using, and learn everything you can about those drugs. Then plan a private, non-interrupted time to discuss your suspicions with your child calmly and objectively. Never confront a child while he is under the influence of drugs. State what you know then ask questions to get a conversation going. It's usual to expect to hear denial and lies, as these are part of the drug abuse syndrome. Don't take them at face value. Then take steps to remove the child from the circumstances where drug use might occur. Restrict access to money and transportation and get professional help for both you and your child.
- Hostility to requests, criticism, or questions on where they have been
- Loss of motivation in school; poor performance, increased absenteeism
- New friends who aren't introduced
- Confusion
- Slow thought processes
- Short attention span
- Forgetfulness
- Sleep and appetite disturbances
- Physical symptoms, such as blood-shot eyes or droopy lids, persistent illness, for example coughing and sniffling, frequent nose bleeds, a decline in grooming and hygiene
If you suspect that your child is using drugs, it is important to acknowledge the problem, try to find out which drug(s) your child is using, and learn everything you can about those drugs. Then plan a private, non-interrupted time to discuss your suspicions with your child calmly and objectively. Never confront a child while he is under the influence of drugs. State what you know then ask questions to get a conversation going. It's usual to expect to hear denial and lies, as these are part of the drug abuse syndrome. Don't take them at face value. Then take steps to remove the child from the circumstances where drug use might occur. Restrict access to money and transportation and get professional help for both you and your child.